Coming up on five years since the day Mrs dropped the bombshell on me, “I want a divorce.”
Having to sit quietly with the declaration, I said “ok, if this is what you want..” “can we just try something? Can we live in this space without any contact or interaction, unless the other is needed for something other than physical contact?”
One year later, Mrs amazed at how her space was given for her time to process her own thoughts, realized she wanted to stay and it was her that needed to see differently.
Love was rooted, grounded and hope is what kept me whole.
We still have an agreement, at any time the door is open for the other to go. We are happy and reacquainting ourselves with self, each other and our relationship.
Whatever happen, we still have love and hope.
Deep peace to you, Carolyn. I will hold this hope for you in the process. We still have love. 🙏🏻❤️