You said it perfectly Eko, we ask them what to pray for so we can have the proper conversation or we pray to what feel is best for them and/or asking for what they may need. I feel people use "pray for me" without really giving it any thought, but still honor their wishes. I honor their wishes. I wonder if people who say, "I'll pray for you" actually do. Thank you for writing this piece and glad something stuck with you from mine.

Your father sounds like my own.

Deep peace to you.